The Most Honest Marketing Strategy You’ll Never Admit Using
- Kristaps Cirulis
- Oct 9
- 2 min read

FOMO is the quiet engine behind most event signups. Not because people love panel discussions, but because no one likes being left out of what looks like a moment.
The trick? It’s not manipulation. It’s momentum.
In numbers, it’s almost universal. Over 80% of internet users experience FOMO at moderate to high levels, and 21% of young adults (15–24) feel it intensely. For those over 55, it drops to just 6%, but when they do feel it, 100% admit to checking what their friends are doing even while on vacation.
So yes, age is the real algorithm.
FOMO marketing works because it mirrors social physics: visibility drives attendance, attendance drives visibility. When enough people signal participation, others translate it as value. That’s not psychology. It’s human geometry, the physics of belonging.
But you can’t fake it anymore. Synthetic hype dies in three scrolls. Real FOMO, the kind that drives engagement, is built on authentic participation.
Here’s how to design it deliberately (without selling your soul):
1. Turn participants into promoters.
Give your speakers, sponsors, and attendees tools to share that they’re coming instantly. Not after an email reminder, instantly. The faster they say “I’m in,” the faster the network effect begins.
(Fun fact: 78% of high-FOMO people say missing a hangout with friends is their top trigger. Events are just a bigger version of that.)
2. Make every share feel personal.
Templates that look like they were built in 2017? Delete them. People want ownership: add names, roles, faces. In one study, 47% of users were drawn to ephemeral content for its attractive designs and models, not the information itself. Beauty still works, but only when it feels like yours.
3. Eliminate friction.
If someone needs to log in or fight with brand assets, the viral spark dies. FOMO feeds on immediacy. The ephemeral content studies show that 24-hour time limits and exclusive access amplify urgency. The simpler the flow, the faster the buzz.
4. Time it before the hype drops.
5. Post-event, turn FOMO into legacy.
Don’t let the energy evaporate. Aggregate posts, recap highlights, and reframe your attendees as part of something ongoing. According to research, FOMO acts as both stressor and satisfier, people feel anxious missing out, but fulfilled when they belong. Keep them connected, and you convert anxiety into identity.
The paradox of modern event marketing is that emotion is the most efficient metric. You can’t spreadsheet excitement, but you can engineer its environment.
So no, you’re not exploiting FOMO. You’re structuring participation.
Let the crowd do what it does best, amplify itself.
Because when everyone’s already saying “I’m coming to…,” your event’s already won.